October 2010


Serendipity finds you ~ Paul Buchheit

Here is an interesting comment from Hacker News, on a story about someone turning down an early Google offer:

Similar thing happened to me in 1999. I realized Google was way cooler than alta vista and better at finding unknown things rather than Yahoo’s directory. Truly the future, I thought. I sent in a resume to do some kind of work not development related; data center & sys admin stuff. They called me twice but I convinced myself that they would not have hired me anyways so I never called back.

Whether or not ignoring Google’s calls was the right decision for him, his reason for not taking the call (fear of rejection) isn’t great.
I don’t have many positive memories from high school, but the one that has stayed with me more than any other comes from the first day of my 11th grade English class. My teacher (I believe his name was “Mr. May”) shared a brief anecdote from the prior evening. He was driving home in the rain, and noticed two people on bicycles along the side of the road. He stopped to ask if they needed any help, and ended up driving them back to his house, where they dried off and had dinner with him and his wife. During dinner, the couple shared the stories from their ongoing bike ride across the country.
It’s not a very dramatic story, but I loved the serendipitous nature of it, both on the part of the couple having adventures biking across the country, and my teacher who saw people along the road and invited them into his home. None of it was planned — they simply allowed it to happen. It was inspirational to me because it felt like the right way to live, the fun way to live. I don’t think that’s how most people operate though.
My own story of how I ended up at Google in 1999 is rather boring. I was interested both in startups, and Linux (which was still somewhat fringe at the time), so I sent my resume to a few companies that I had seen mentioned on Slashdot (a rather lazy job search, in hindsight). Fortunately, most of them never even responded, and only one actually offered me a job, Google. I was skeptical of their business and didn’t expect it to last long, but it seemed like it could be fun and educational, so I accepted.
Obviously that’s an example of rather extreme luck, but I’ve noticed that most of the good things that happen to me follow that general pattern, and aren’t part of any “plan”. The story of how I met my wife is remarkably similar. Shortly after moving to California, I signed up for match.com, read a bunch of profiles, emailed three of them, and only one responded. I was very much not looking for someone to marry, but that’s what happened anyway. As they say, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”
My plans rarely work (unless they are boringly simple), but serendipity has been good to me, so over time I’ve tried to make the most of that. My theory of serendipity is still evolving, but from what I’ve seen, it’s better to think in terms of “allowing” serendipity rather than “seeking” it or “creating” it. Opportunity is all around us, but we have beliefs and habits that block it.
The two biggest blocks to serendipity seem to be ego-fear and “other plans”.
I’m using the term “ego-fear” to describe fears that go beyond rational concern. For example, you wouldn’t run out into the middle of a freeway thanks to a healthy fear of getting run over by a car — that’s not ego-fear. However, the fear that often keeps people from public speaking, talking to strangers, interviewing for jobs, etc is typically driven by fear of embarrassment, humiliation, rejection, criticism, etc — that’s ego-fear. Sometimes it can be difficult to separate the two types of fear because ego-fear will rationalize itself as healthy fear, e.g. “I don’t want to talk to that stranger because they could attack me, or waste my time.”
The HN commenter quoted above who never accepted Google’s calls because, in his words, “they would not have hired me anyways”, seems to be experiencing quite a bit of ego-fear, fear of rejection and humiliation. That fear is probably blocking a lot of great opportunities.
It’s tempting to try and think your way out of ego-fear, but I suspect that only makes the problem worse by generating a more complex tangle of rationalizations for the fear. Fear is defeated by confrontation — avoidance only makes it stronger.
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.” - Eleanor Roosevelt
The program for eliminating ego-fear and unblocking serendipity is very simple: seek ego-fear. Hunt it down and soak in it. Steal its energy. This is, by definition, scary. That’s good.
The other big serendipity block seems to be “the plan”. Serendipity and luck are by their very nature unpredictable, and therefore not part of any good plan. When something unexpected happens, things are no longer “going according to plan”, and there is a tendency to view the unexpected event either as a distraction, or as a frustrating obstacle to success.
The difference between a life full of frustrating obstacles, and a life full of serendipity, is largely a matter of interpretation. It can be difficult, but the most beneficial response to unexpected events is a sense of gratitude. Even seemingly adverse events can lead to something great. Accept what is given. (see Yes Man for a cute caricature of this mindset)
“Plans are worthless. Planning is essential.” – Dwight D. Eisenhower
Planning in itself is not a bad thing, but picking a single plan and obsessively sticking to it doesn’t allow for much serendipity. The world is very complicated, and we humans are very stupid, so it’s good to be flexible and open minded about things. Instead of having one plan, have one thousand plans, and revise them as necessary.
The desire to have “a plan” can also cause “paralysis of analysis” — we put all of our energy into formulating the perfect plan, and consequently never actually do anything. The more effective approach is to simply pick a plan with the knowledge that it’s flawed, set the plan in action, and then adapt, revise, or switch plans as the world unfolds.
I suspect the desire to have a definite plan is also partially rooted in fear. Uncertainty can be scary, and having a plan helps create the illusion of predictability in a very unpredictable world. However, if we actually manage to reduce risk and unpredictability, then we are also reducing serendipity. This is one reason why large organizations often have trouble producing innovation — they want it to be planned and scheduled, but that just kills it.
The whole notion that plans are something that we should “stick to” makes them distracting enough that I prefer to call them “ideas” or “rough sketches” instead. Personally, I try to avoid having plans for my life, but I have many ideas. Which ones actually happen will be a surprise to me. It’s more fun that way.

Paul Buchheit is an American computer programmer and entrepreneur. He was the creator and lead developer of Gmail. He developed the original prototype of Google AdSense as part of his work on Gmail. He also suggested the company’s now-famous motto “Don’t be evil” in a 2000 meeting on company values.


 

We never miss a chance to spot gems, isn’t it! This one is from CNNgo.

40 Mumbai foods we can’t live without : From street food spice bombs to favorite fasting foods and meat dishes fit for a Mughal invader, here are a selection of foods that any true Mumbaiker revels in – By Sanjiv Khamgaonkar

The history of food in Mumbai is closely linked to the growth of this city from fishing village to megapolis. As wave after wave of immigrants from all over the country came with dreams of gold in their eyes, they brought their culinary treasures with them. The result? A smorgasbord of cooking styles and street food that reflects our cosmopolitanism as much as our carbohydrate-fueled work ethic.

Here’s a sampling of 40 must-try foods that define Mumbai’s food culture, with Muslim, Gujarati, Goan, Coastal, South Indian, Parsi and of course local Maharashtran influences.

1. Akuri on toast

Move over scrambled eggs, the Parsi Akuri cometh. Rated as one of the great Parsi dishes, every family has its own special way of making this breakfast meal. Though variations of the ingredients are vociferously debated, Akuri is usually made by scrambling eggs with onions, tomatoes (or even raw mangoes when in season), red chilli powder, green chillies and topped with fresh coriander. Others add milk, jeera (cumin) powder, curry leaves and even ginger and garlic paste.

Try the Akuri on Toast at Jimmy Boy, 11 Bank Street, Vikas Building, Off Horniman Circle, Fort. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2266 2503

2. Baida roti

This one is an interesting envelope. Spiced meat — chicken or minced mutton, even bheja (brain) — and whipped eggs with masala-fied fried onions enveloped in a square shaped dough and pan fried. Though served with sliced onion rings and green chutney, they’re delicious even without accompaniment.

A lot of people swear by the Baida Roti at Bade Mian, Tullock Road, Behind Taj Mahal Hotel, Apollo Bunder, evenings only. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2284 8038

3. Batata vada

Whether it’s for breakfast, teatime, or anytime, one thing is for sure, Mumbaikars can’t live without the Batata Vada bite. This well-liked fast food dumpling is made by mashing boiled potatoes with green chilies, ginger, garlic, lime juice, turmeric, and fresh coriander, then dipped in a besan (gram flour) batter and deep fried. It’s served either with a green chutney or fried green chillies.

Virtually every street corner will have an outstanding Batata Vada seller but it’s hard to beat the ones made at Shrikrishna, near Chabildas High School, Dadar Market.

4. Butter chicken

This ubiquitous dish traces its roots to the days of the Mughals when calorie counting was a thing of the future. This must-order dish when Indian families go out for dinner is made from chunks of chicken, marinated overnight in a yogurt and spice mix that includes ginger garlic paste and lime juice. It is then grilled or pan-fried. An ultra rich sauce made with butter, tomato puree, cumin, garam masalas and fresh cream is then poured over it. Best had with Indian breads like rotis, naan or parathas. Don’t confuse it with chicken tikka masala, which is a story for another day.

While available at every kind of eatery, the butter chicken at Punjab Grill is worth dying for. Level 3, Palladium Mall, Phoenix Mills, Lower Parel. Tel: +91 (0) 22 4347 3980

5. The Bombay sandwich

This street side invention is a combination of the most unlikely ingredients. Lavishly buttered white bread and sandwiched between them thin slices of beetroot, boiled potatoes, cucumbers, tomatoes, onion rings, and mint chutney. Cut into four triangles so that you can handle all the layers without spilling them, you get the most refreshing tangy taste, after each bite. A toasted version steams up the vegetables inside and adds another dimension. Truly, there is no other sandwich quite like it in the world.

Though widely available through out the city, try it at Amar Juice Centre, near Cooper Hospital, opp. Juhu Galli. Or the Mafco Stall outside Worli Dairy on Worli Sea Face.

6. Bheja fry

Bheja, or goat brain, sautéed with tomatoes, onions, turmeric, green chillies, spices and garnished with fresh coriander, is a staple of all those with hardcore carnivorous leanings in the city. Eaten with a roti (Indian bread) or pao, this melt in the mouth dish has a rich Muslim heritage behind it and you often find that one plate is not enough.

Radio Restaurant, 10, Musafir Khana, Palton Road, Tel: +91 (0) 22 2261 7171, serves up a really good Bheja Fry.

7. Bombil fry

Bombil, or Bombay Duck, is a fish (and not a duck) found in plenty in the waters around Mumbai. A fisher folk favourite, Bombils are flattened, then dipped in a spice-filled besan (gram flour) batter and fried. This crunchy-on-the-outside and mushy-soft-on-the-inside fish dish can be eaten on its own as a starter, or as a main course with chapattis.

Gajalee restaurant does a mean Bombil Fry. They have branches at Hanuman Road, Vile Parle (E), Tel: +91 22 26114093. And at Phoenix Mills, Lower Parel, Tel: +91 22 2495 0667

8. Brun maska

You may wonder how bread and butter can become such an iconic union. But it’s not merely bread and this is not merely butter. It’s brun or gutli pao — a local bread that is unique to Mumbai — and it’s crisp and hard and crumbly on the outside and soft inside. The Brun is then sliced and lashings of butter are applied lavishly. Some even sprinkle quite a bit of sugar. It is usually accompanied by the sweet Irani chai. Dipping the brun maska in the chai is the only way to eat it.

Available at most Irani restaurants, the Brun Maska at Kyani & Co is historic. 657 Jer Mahal Estate, Opp. Metro Cinema, Dhobi Talao, Tel: +91 (0) 22 2201 1492. Also try it at B Merwan, Opp. Grant Road Station (E), Tel: +91 (0) 22 2309 3321

9. Bhel puri

The most commonly sold chaat on the streets of Mumbai, every bhel walla will have his own matchless blend and a considerable 7pm fan following. While the ingredients — puffed rice, papadi (small crisp deep fried flour puris), sev, onions, potatoes, raw mango and sweet and sour chutney — remain the same, it is the proportions in which they are thrown together on the street side that makes the difference.

Bhel puri is available everywhere. The stalls at Chowpatty and Juhu beaches draw throngs of die-hard fans. But if you want a bhel puri with ambience, try it at Sea Lounge, Taj Mahal Hotel, Apollo Bunder. Tel: +91 (0) 22 6665 3366

10. Chicken mayo roll

Almost every school or college canteen serves it. Most single screen cinema houses showing English movies display it during the interval. Most bakeries will have their version, neatly wrapped in cellophane, at the counter. Some grocery stores in up market areas stock it along with grain and rice. It’s hard to believe that plain boiled chicken doused in sweet-ish mayonnaise with a celery leaf for dressing, all wrapped up in a bread roll can be so popular in a spice loving city. But it is.

One of the creamiest chicken mayo rolls can be had at Paradise, Sindh Chambers, Shahid Bhagat Singh Road, Colaba, Tel: +91 22 22832874. Or try it at Candies, Mac Ronells, 5A Pali Hill, St. Andrews Road, Bandra (W). Tel: +91 22 26424125

11. Chicken manchurian

Here’s a dish that even the Chinese over on the mainland haven’t heard about. Snigger, snigger. Yet it’s on the menu of the roadside handcart Chinese food hawker and the Chinese restaurant in the fancy five-star hotel. Chicken manchurian, a phrase that has come to be the face of Chinese food in India, is nothing but deep-fried batter-coated chicken cubes in an onion, green chillies, garlic, vinegar and soy sauce gravy. Eaten with rice, it never fails to get a sigh of contentment from those partaking of this gastronomic oddity.

If you want to taste the real thing, try it where it was created, China Garden, Om Chambers, Kemps Corner. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2363 0841

12. Butter garlic crab

It doesn’t trace its roots to Chinese, Continental or Indian cuisines. It comes from Butter Land, an imagined place that thrives on the premise that anything tastes great with melted butter. A delicious, simple dish, a big crab is drowned in tons of butter garlic sauce that seeps into every nook and cranny and coats every morsel of the flesh. Crack open the crab and take a bite. You’ll know immediately that sweet crabmeat and butter with a twist of garlic is a combination made by gods.

The best butter garlic crab can be found at Mumbai’s most famous seafood restaurant. Trishna, Sai Baba Marg, Near Rhythm House, Kala Ghoda, Fort. Tel: +91 22 22703213

13. Dhoklas and farsaan

These popular snacks are so integral to food loving Gujaratis that no meal is complete without them. And when traveling abroad, they don’t leave home without a little parcel tucked away in their luggage. Dhoklas or ‘khummun’ are made from the fermented batter of chickpeas, steamed and then spiced with chillies and ginger and tempered with mustard seed. Farsan, a broad term for savories encompassing sev and gathiya are crisp deep-fried spiced gram flour creations in pasta like shapes.

Several stores stock these popular snacks. But try them here: Chedda Dry Fruits & Snacks, 41 Ridge Road, Walkeshwar. Tel: +91 22 (0) 2369 9442. Dave Farsan Mart, 10 Babulnath Road, near Chowpatty. Tel: +91 (0) 22 6657 8311. Go-Go Snacks, Bhavan’s College Lane, Chowpatty. Tel: +91 22 (0) 2361 9968.

14. Falooda

This adaptation of a Persian dessert was brought to India by the Mughals. A rich drink, Falooda is vermicelli mixed with milk, almonds, pistachios, a bit of rose syrup and the key ingredient — sabza or basil seeds — topped up with two scoops of ice cream. Refreshing, rosy, energizing, it’s a great pick-me-up on a hot day.

Badshah, at 152/156 LT Marg, Opp. Crawford Market. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2342 1943, has a reputation for their falooda.

15. Fish and prawn curry

These two dishes are as old as Mumbai herself (remember, this city started off as a fishing village under various kings and sultanates until the Portuguese and English discovered it in 1534). This coconut-based light curry can be prepared using a variety of fish or prawn. But the most popular curries use surmai (kingfish), pomfret (butter fish), bangda (mackerel) or bombil (Bombay duck). And the only way to truly enjoy it is with par boiled country rice.

For Konkani and Malvani style fish curry  go to Sadichha, B-5 Gandhi Nagar, Opp. MIG Club, Bandra (E), Tel: +91 (0) 22 2651 0175. For Karwar style fish curry there’s Fresh Catch, Lt. Kotnis Marg, Near Fire Brigade, Off L J Road, Mahim (W). Tel: +91 (0) 22 2444 8942

16. Frankie

Inspired by the Lebanese pita bread wrap and suitably Indianized, the Frankie, or should I say the Tibbs Frankie, has satiated hordes of the hungry in search of a quick lip-smacking snack. Basically, it’s a juicy naan bread with an egg coating and stuffed with mutton or chicken, rolled up and sprinkled with a unique masala that gives it its special flavor. The vegetarian option does not use eggs and the stuffings include paneer or potatoes.

Available all over the city. For a Tibbs Frankie closest to you, call +91 (0) 22 2821 4698

17. Gujarati thaalis

In fast food terms think of this as a large, all-you-can-eat combo platter served on your table in unlimited quantities. Three types of farsan (fried snacky things with a plethora of chutneys). Two kinds of vegetables. Two kinds of lentils. Dal and kadhi (hot and spicy yoghurt based dish). A basket of different rotis and puris (deep fried breads). Two kinds of rice. Two desserts. And mango pulp which the purists pour all over the plate. All this for a modest price. Gasp! A note on Gujarati cuisine: most dishes tend to be on the sweet side and that makes an interesting combination with the spiciness of the food. Mumbaikers either love it or ignore it.

Try Golden Star Thali, 330 Raja Rammohan Roy Road, Opp. Charni Road Station, Girgaum, Tel: +91 (0) 22 2363 1983. Or, Chetana, 34 K Dubash Marg, Kala Ghoda, Fort. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2284 4968

18. Kheema pao

Minced mutton cooked with onions, garlic, tomatoes, chillies and spices takes on many avatars here. In its original form, it is refereed to as plain Kheema. Topped with a crisply fried sunny side up egg, it is called kheema single fry. And scrambled with eggs, it is called ghotala. And all three are best eaten with Mumbai’s signature pao bread bun. Traditionally a breakfast dish, it is now eaten at all times of the day or night.

Try it at Stadium Restaurant, IMC Building, Veer Nariman Road, Churchgate, Tel: +91 (0) 22 2204 6819. Or at Olympia, Rahim Mansion, 1 Shahid Bhagat Singh Road, Colaba, Tel: +91 (0) 22 2202 1043.

19. Kebabs

While the kebab per se may not be unique to Mumbai or the region, a few varieties that emerged from the Bohri Muslim community are truly unique. Gurda (kidney) and kaleji (liver) top this list. Charcoal grilled, they go great with freshly sliced onions and a squeeze of lime.

Try it at Ayubs, on the street behind Rhythm House, Kala Ghoda, open only in the evenings. The best beef kebabs are to be found at Sarvi, 184/196 Dimtimkar Road, opposite Nagpada Police Station, Byculla (W). Tel: +91 9833 533 305. And for some outstanding north west frontier style Kebabs, go to Peshawari, ITC Grand Maratha, Sahar Road, Andheri (E), Tel: +91 (0) 22 2830 3030

20. Kolhapuri mutton

The hotter the temperature of a city, the hotter the food. And it’s true of this mutton dish that has its roots in Kolhapur, a city in the south of Maharashtra. It comes in two coconut based gravy variations. The nuclear strength version is called Tambda Rassa (a red chili spiced extravaganza). And the milder version is called Pandhara Rassa (yoghurt, cashew nuts and raisin embellished). Both go well with either rotis or rice when you’re in the mood for a feast.

Taste the heat at Purepur Kolhapur, 1, Aditya Apartments, Parleshwar Road, Parleshwar Mandir, Vile Parle (E). Tel: +91 (0) 22 2613 4569

21. Kanda poha

A must-have in Maharashtrian families, you will rarely find a badly made kanda poha dish. This simple, easy to make snack is made with kanda (onions) and poha (flaked rice) mixed with chopped potatoes and green chillies, sometimes even peas. Tempered with mustard seeds and garnished with fresh coriander and a squeeze of lime, it lights up dull days. And cements the many days in a marriage together.

Try it at Aswad, L J Road, Opp. Shiv Sena Bhavan, Dadar (W). Tel: +91 (0) 22 2445 1871

22. Misal pao

Quintessentially from Pune, this rustic dish is made from a mix of curried sprouted lentils, topped with batata (potato) bhaji, poha (rice flakes), chivda, farsan, raw chopped onions and tomato. This hot and spicy dish is eaten with pao bread. To cut the fire, add some yogurt.

A good version can be found at Vinay Health Home, 71/83, Jawahar Mansion, Fanaswadi-Thakurdwar Corner, Girgaum. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2208 1211

23. Modak

A Maharashtrian sweet prepared during the Ganesh festival around August, modak is offered to Lord Ganesha, the elephant-headed god, because it is his favorite sweet. Wheat flour dough kneaded with milk, stuffed with grated coconut and mixed with sugar or jaggery. Shaped like a teardrop and steamed or fried. Typically 21 are made as an auspicious offering to the god and tons more for the rest of the family. It’s a pity that it’s made only once a year and in this region.

Some sweet shops do keep modak during the festival season but it is made of khoya (thickened milk) and is not the real thing. For that, you’ll have to drop into a home that is celebrating the festival.

24. Mutton dhansak

Representative of Parsi cuisine, the mutton dhansak falls in the category of soul food. It is mutton cooked till tender in a lentil dal laden with spices. And it is eaten with browned rice topped with deep fried onions, garnished with mutton kebabs and sprinkled with a crunchy mix of chopped raw onions, raw tomatoes and coriander. And the aftereffects are usually exhibited in a sound afternoon nap.

This rich dish, outside of a home, is best had at Ripon Club, 123A MG Road, Opp. Bombay University, Fountain. Find a member to take you there. Failing which, go to Britannia, Wakefield House, 11 Sprott Road, Ballard Estate. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2261 5264

25. Mutton sukke

Mumbaikers break out into sweat over this Malvani-style mutton dish. Chunks of mutton on the bone marinated in a hot Malvani masala and fried with onions and garlic and red chillies until everything browns and the meat is tender. It can be eaten with chapattis or wadé, rice flour pancakes.

Try it at Jai Hind Lunch Home, 6 Mantri Corner, Gokhale Road South, Dadar. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2431 4256

26. Patra ni machhi

Another top of the line Parsi dish. This is freshly caught pomfret, marinated in a chutney that includes grated coconut, green chillies, fresh coriander and mint leaves, cumin, sugar, lime and salt. It is then wrapped in banana leaf and steamed for about ten minutes. Gently unwrap and consume quietly, close your eyes and savor the flavor of a culinary culture that will fill your senses.

A very good patra ni machhi can be had at Ideal Corner, 12/F/G, Hornby View, Gunbow Street, Fort. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2262 1930. Only available on Saturdays.

27. Pao bhaji

This specialty dish from the by-lanes of Mumbai has mashed steamed mixed vegetables (mainly potatoes, peas, tomatoes, onions and green pepper) cooked in spices and loads of butter. It is eaten with pao, which is shallow fried in even more butter and served with chopped onions. Sometimes cheese and paneer (cottage cheese) are added. People from all over India come to Mumbai to eat pao bhaji.

Though widely available at local restaurants, try the sinful pao bhaji at Sardar, 166A Tardeo Road Junction, Opp. Bus Depot, Tardeo. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2353 0208

28. Prawns koliwada

Contrary to popular belief that this dish originated on the Konkan coast, it is actually a very Mumbai dish and the story goes that it was created in the Sion fishing village, or koliwada, by — and here’s the twist — a north Indian immigrant from Punjab. These deep-fried prawns marinated in a batter of flour, spices and ginger garlic paste can be identified by their signature red color. And they are crunchy yet melt in the mouth. Pick the smaller sized prawns, they taste better.

Try the real thing at Hazara, GTB Nagar, Near the Gurudwara, Sion (W). Tel: +91 (0) 22 2409 2617

29. Nalli nihari

The phrase “breakfast like a king” gets taken to another level when you dig into a plate of Muslim nalli nihari. You could probably fight a war after this power meal made of soft and tender mutton shanks in a rich, greasy gravy filled with marrow and steeped in spices, the flavors exploding with delight. A crisp roti makes for the perfect accompaniment. Can you stomach this for breakfast?

The best Nalli Nihari can be had at Noor Mohammadi, 179 Wazir Building, Abdul Hakim Noor Mohammadi Chowk, Bhendi Bazaar. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2347 6188. Just make sure you reach before noon or you may leave disappointed.

30. Puran poli

A festive dish made by Maharashtrians and Gujaratis especially during Holi (to celebrate the end of the winter season) and Dussehra (to celebrate the triumph of Lord Ram over the demon Raavan). It is made by simmering chana dal (yellow gram) with sugar or jaggery (molasses or gur) till it dries up, and then hand-ground to smoothen it out. Nutmeg and cardamom powders are the flavorings. Palm sized balls of this paste are stuffed into wheat flour dough and rolled out to be roasted on a tawa frying pan with a little ghee (clarified butter). Do add a lot of ghee when you’re eating them, they taste tops then.

Puran polis can be found in some grocery stores but they are a poor mass produced version of the real thing. The real ones can only be found in a Maharashtrian or Gujarati home.

31. Ragda pattice

This twin delight is a combination of ragda, soft spicy rugged flavored chickpeas, and pattice, mashed potatoes shaped into fat patties and fried. The ideal way is to eat it is to crush the ragda with the pattice and pile on the accompaniments — finely chopped onions, tangy tamarind sauce and fiery green chutney. Mash it all up and dig in for the true flavor of Mumbai.

A favorite street food, it is part of the chaat family and is commonly found all over. A good place to try it is Kailash Parbat, Sheela Mahal, 1st Pasta Lane, Colaba. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2284 1972

32. Sabudana vada

For Maharashtrians, sabudana vada is the traditional ‘upvas’ or fasting food and the really hardcore folk fast up to four times a week. And the good news is that the restaurants never fail to oblige with hot crisp sabudana vadas for those who don’t have the time to make it at home. Sago is soaked until it puffs up. Crushed boiled potatoes, green chillies, coriander leaves and salt are kneaded in. They are then fashioned into palm-sized patties and deep fried until they turn crisp and golden. And then one bite leads to another and another.

Sabudana vadas are available at most Udipi hotels and roadside stalls. But try the ones at the R K Studio Canteen, Chembur. They are really special.

33. Samosa

It’s best to bite into a hot one, hiding under a street stall during a typical Mumbai monsoon downpour. When you go through the crisp crust, you meet the steaming and savory-with-a-hint-of-sour chunks of spiced potatoes and peas. Lovingly shaped into triangles and deep fried, these calorie busters are worth the one week that you’ll need on the treadmill to work it off. But a samosa can also give you heart at that last leg of your day when transport is not in sight, it’s dark and there’s a long way home.

You can ask for Guru Kripa samosas at many stores across Mumbai. Or go to the original Guru Kripa Hotel, 40, Guru Kripa Building, near SIES College, Sion. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2407 1237

34. Sizzlers

As kids, a sizzler was part of the “growing up in Mumbai” experience. The sight of a sizzler arriving at your table, like an old steam engine, sizzling and steaming and spluttering to a halt in front of you, was an exciting experience. A combination of grilled meats and vegetables served on what looks like a hot chunk of black iron, with a side of mashed potatoes or fries and gravy. Sizzlers come in several vegetarian options too. Long lines at restaurants are a testimony to its enduring popularity.

Give sizzlers a try at places synonymous with the word. Such as Kobe, 13/14 Sukh Sagar, Hughes Road, Opera House. Tel: +91 (0) 22 23632174. Or Yoko, West View, S V Road, near Akbarally’s, Santacruz (W). Tel: +91 (0) 22 2649 2313

35. Sorpatel and vindaloo

These Goan specialties set your taste buds on fire and grandmothers are rumored to pass out feni shots (a strong Goan brew made from palm or cashew nuts) to douse the flames. The sorpatel has all parts of the pig, including its blood, in the recipe. And the vindaloo is made with chunks of fatty pork meat cooked with spices, red chillies and lots of vinegar. Ideally, they are eaten the next day, after having spent the night soaking in all the juices and flavors.

Try sorpatel, vindaloo and other Goan delicacies at City Kitchen, 301 Shahid Bhagat Singh Road, Fort. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2261 0002. Or, New Martin Hotel, 11 Glamour House, Strand Cinema Road, Colaba. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2202 9606

36. South Indian ‘meals’

“Meals Ready” is a common sign found outside South Indian restaurants. In front of Udipi hotels, a euphemism for all south Indian cuisine, it means vegetarian meals laid out on a thaali, a stainless steel plate, or on a traditional banana leaf. A couple of vegetables, sambar (spicy and sour lentils and vegetables boiled with masalas and spices), rasam (a hot and fiery lentil soup-like dish) and curds (yoghurt) served with heaps of rice and eaten in that order. A non-vegetarian version of the ‘Meals’ can be found in ‘Military’ hotels.

Try the ‘meals’ at this 68-year-old haven: Rama Nayak’s Udipi Shree Krishna Boarding, bang outside the Matunga (E) station. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2414 2422

37. Zhunka bhakar

This dish has deep roots in the farming and working class communities of interior Maharashtra. Considered the common man’s food, a political decision was made at the highest echelons of government to make it available everywhere. Overnight, thousands of zhunka bhakar stalls opened, none pricing it more than Rs 10. Traditionally, the zhunka is made using chopped onions tempered with mustard seeds and kadipatta leaves mixed with chickpea flour and is dry. It is eaten with jowar (millet) bhakri or roti.

Try the stalls opposite Chhatrapati Shivaji Terminus (originally called Victoria Terminus) and BMC Headquarters.

38. Varan bhaat

If you wanted to name one truly soul satisfying food of Mumbai city, then this would be it. The simple and truly humble dish is made by lightly tempering cooked-till-soft toor dal (a lentil) with ghee (clarified butter), turmeric and cumin powder. Served over steaming hot rice, or bhaat, it assumes magical, mythical proportions.

A staple in Maharashtrian homes, that’s really where you should be eating it. But do give Diva Maharashtracha a try. T H Kataria Marg, Mahim. Tel: +91 (0) 22 2445 4433.

39. South Indian tiffin (idlis and vadas)

What started as tiffin in British India — a light meal that was had between meals — has become a rage all over the country. And especially in hard working Mumbai. Here you will find a South Indian tiffin available every half a kilometer and at any time of day or night. These steamed (idlis) or fried (vadas) dumplings made with multi-grain lentil batter are best scooped up with coconut chutney or dunked into hot sambar (spicy and sour lentil and vegetable soup, boiled with masalas and spices).

The finest South Indian Tiffin can be found at Madras Café (+91 (0) 22 2401 4419), Anand Bhavan (+91 (0) 22 2401 5745) and Idli House (+91 (0) 22 3246 0111), all located around King’s Circle, Matunga.

40. Vada pao

In the vast fast food world of Mumbai, this is the tastiest “cutlet in a bun” by a mile. And no, it’s not available at McDonald’s. Every Mumbaiker’s favorite on-the-go snack, the vada pao satiates millions every day. And the recipe, hard to duplicate because each stall owner has his own secret ingredient, uses a combination of boiled potatoes mashed with fresh coriander, green chillies, a bit of ginger and sometimes garlic, made into palm-sized balls, dipped in a chickpea flour batter and deep fried till golden. They are stuffed into a pao, which has been applied with a layer of spicy green chutney and a fiery red garlic crush. Tastes best when eaten hot.

It’s a crime to eat vada pao anywhere else but on the street. Try Ashok Satam’s Stall, on the Flora Fountain side of the Central Telegraph Office (CTO), Fort.

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So, tell us dear reader, what’s the score? How many of these have you tried? How many of these have you loved? Which of these feature in your list of favorites? Anything else that can be added to the list?

And if that doesn’t suffice, there is also the Mumbai Fine Dining Guide. See below. For pictures and photographs, you may visit their site.

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Mumbai’s 10 best new restaurants in 2010 – The only thing we don’t like about these 10 best breaks from dal sabzi is booking in advance

From the hottest table and most coveted seat, to the sexiest starter and most enticing soundtrack, CNNGo replays the year in restaurants, bringing you the best of what’s arrived on Mumbai’s culinary circuit in 2010.

1. KOH by Ian Kittichai, Marine Drive

There are several reasons to take your date to KOH, InterContinental Marine Drive’s sexy new Thai restaurant. It’s all slick black surfaces and plush leather with accents of purple, yellow and blue; you can’t help but start your night at the curved bar that’s right by the entrance; and you get to share sizzling stone rice for two, half cooked at your table over lava stone. Definitely the hottest table in the city.

Manned by Ian Kittichai, celebrity chef with successful projects in New York, Barcelona and Bangkok, dining here feels like a night out at a tony lounge in the Meat Packing District, complete with neon pink lights and metallic ceilings. Add to that impeccable service and food that gets progressively better with every course (Chai Mai soup – rice cakes – green curry – luscious coconut cheesecake), and KOH could easily be one of 2010′s best moments.

InterContinental Marine Drive; tel. +91 (0) 22 3987 9999; http://www.ianchalermkittichai.com

2. Fifty Five East, Santacruz

You should probably wear comfortable shoes to Fifty Five East, the Grand Hyatt’s new restaurant that requires diners to traipse from one “show kitchen” to the next, picking from about a hundred dishes that warrant frequent return trips. Are you being served? Not here.

Bright lights beam through laser cut ceilings and rows of LCD panels will keep you looking alive, as you walk around the 6,500 square foot space decorated by Super Potato, the Japanese interiors firm that did Wink and China House. While the food selection is random — Lebanese, Japanese, Thai, Indian and Western Grills — most dishes are tasty. Charm the chefs at the live counters and you may just be able to take a recipe home.

Grand Hyatt, off Western Express Highway, Santacruz (East); tel. +91 (0) 22 6676 1149, open for breakfast, lunch and dinner; http://www.mumbai.grand.hyatt.com

3. Indigo Deli, Lower Parel

Lower Parel’s modern-day mill workers suited up for Indigo Deli’s second outpost when it opened up at Palladium this year. But then, so did shoppers from the mall, mothers lunching with their daughters and loads of solo lunch regulars.

Now, all sets of diners happily co-exist at Malini and Rahul Akerkar’s latest restaurant, making it close to impossible to get a table here without calling ahead. And often even that can’t guarantee you a seat. Dig into bacon and cheese beef burgers at lunch time, console yourself after a tough day with peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and buy truffle oil on your way out.

Palladium Mall, Phoenix Mills, Lower Parel; tel. +91 (0) 22 2498 6262; http://www.indigodeli.com

4. Two One Two Bar and Grill, Worli

It was a waste of 4,000 square feet of prime Worli space, that unremarkable resto-lounge called Magick, deserted on most nights. It’s lucky that life gave it a second chance, one that resulted in an Italian restaurant where a Milanese chef bakes Camembert, sears tenderloin and tuna to perfection and successful 30-somethings sip on wine and sometimes, mushroom cappuccino soup.

Co-owned by Fire n’ Ice’s Ketan Kadam and three other guys who named Two One Two after the temperature at which water boils, this mid-town eatery is mostly defined by woody interiors, high back chairs, luxurious couches and an additional al fresco section. In a zip code devoid of hip dining options (Copper Chimney is too old-school and Don Giovani shut down), chef Alex Bignotti’s Two One Two is perfect for an interesting ultra urban dining experience.

12 A, Hornby Vellard Estate, on the same road as Nehru Centre, Worli; tel. +91 9920838529 / +91 (0) 22 24901994; Facebook group

5. Pali Village Café, Bandra

It’s hard to pull off crumbly cool decor and a wine-only menu, but the young couple that owns and runs Pali Village Café have done it well. Peeling walls, old fans, foldable, rusty steel chairs, empty cages and paper menus define one of the most popular new restaurants this side of the sealink.

Despite the super slow service and small portions that everyone loves to crib about, here, in the glassed-in courtyard space and along art deco balconies surrounded by green plants and quirky music, Bandra’s creative and Bollywood lot sip on melon Sula sangria and eat wafer-thin pizza and pannacotta to the soundtrack of Vicky Cristina Barcelona. Check your case of the blues in at the door.

Pali Village Café, next to Janata Bar and Restaurant, Pali Naka, Bandra (W); tel. +91 (0) 22 26050401

6. Ziya, Nariman Point

Ziya was among a handful of restaurants that created a big buzz before it launched, and managed to live up to the hype. Housed in the Oberoi Hotel, Ziya is the second new Mumbai restaurant from Michelin-starred chef Vineet Bhatia. His other is Azok, which also serves contemporary Indian cuisine.

Indian recipes get the royal treatment at this gold and cream hued restaurant. The result? An imaginative menu that relegates staples like black dal and paneer makhani to the accompaniments section, making room for the more twisted and new school uttampam lasagna and tandoori chicken dosa.

A quick and painless (read less expensive) way of doing Ziya is by ordering the express meal which includes soup, fritters, chicken or vegetarian dosa and dessert; at Rs 1,300, it’s a better deal.

Ziya, Oberoi Hotel, Nariman Point; tel. +91 (0) 22 6632 4343; http://www.oberoihotels.com

7. Villa 39, Colaba

In the chaotic Colaba district populated by junk shoppers and bar hoppers, Villa 39 is a great place for the fine diner to fit in.

A vision in creamy white, this Italian restaurant forms a clean canvas for dramatic chandeliers, brightly hued Sangria Romano and flamboyant food. It may not get everything on its ambitious menu right, but try the Terrina di Mozzarella Caprese, Spiedini di Pollo and Gnocchi alla Piemontese.

The bar area is quickly growing into a coveted townie weekend spot where seats are hard to come by.

Amarchand Mansion, 60 Madam Cama Road, Colaba; tel. +91 (0) 22 6657 3939; Facebook group

8. Trilogy, Juhu

Its launch may have seemed over the top — the luxurious red carpet, strict door policy, hand-picked celebrity guests and VIP section with waist-high champagne flutes — but the suburban dancers knew it was reason to celebrate. Finally, a real night club on the north side!

Trilogy is a two-tiered, sea-facing club, bar and lounge housed inside Juhu’s Sea Princess Hotel and is the second production by the Tham brothers, the first being Colaba’s Henry Tham. Mumbaikers will know that means more yum Pan Asian food — get the sushi and batter-fried chicken supported by a range of bright and expensive cocktails served by fedora-wearing bartenders. Also worth checking out: The psychedelic light installation on the ceiling and Trilogy’s smoking room with a view. If you manage to keep from choking, that is.

Hotel Sea Princess, Juhu Tara Road, Santacruz (W); tel. +91 (0) 22  2646 9500

9. Veda, Lower Parel

We snuck into this yet-to-open Indian restaurant at the Palladium to find opulent splashes of color, operatic chandeliers and intricate baroque detailing.

Veda, a New Delhi establishment by fashion couturier Rohit Bal and restaurateur Alok Aggarwal, is all set to launch its first Mumbai outpost next week. The original got listed by Conde Nast Traveler magazine as being among the 100 best restaurants in the world, mostly for the rich Indian bridal kitsch it symbolizes and in the land of Bollywood it could work as well.

If the interiors are anything to go by, it’s capital gains for Mumbai.

S 8, Palladium, Phoenix Mills compound, Senapati Bapat Marg, Lower Parel, tel. +91 (0) 22 2490 0055; http://www.vedarestaurants.com

10. Chez Vous, Churchgate

French food in Mumbai! Enough said. Replacing Churchgate’s iconic Sundance Café, Chez Vous will be Mumbai’s first French bistro and will serve authentic cuisine for breakfast, lunch and dinner. This is a joint collaboration between head chef Cedric Combe, Satyen Melwani and Frederic Fernandez, who thinks that Mumbai is now ready for escargot and more.

Visit this black, white and absinthe green space (spread over 1,342 square feet) for lunch, and you can choose from a prix fixe menu with over 15 rotating dishes, while dinner is a la carte all the way.

Personally, co-owner Fernandez can’t wait to scarf down the avocado and goat cheese appetiser, as well as the crab creole. What excites us most is the extensive wine list, 60 percent of which is exclusive to the restaurant, and he suggests falling in love with Paris Je t’aime — a potent combination of champagne and absinthe. Parfait!

Ground floor, Eros Cinema building, Churchgate; slated to open October 22.

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Drool-worthy, isn’t it? Any other Fine Dining favorites that you want to add?

[Via Paulo Coelho's blog]

Computers are like Old Testament gods; lots of rules and no mercy.

Find a place inside where there’s joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.
Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors where there were only walls.
Is the system going to flatten you out and deny you your humanity, or are you going to be able to make use of the system to the attainment of human purposes?

I don’t believe people are looking for the meaning of life as much as they are looking for the experience of being alive.

I think the person who takes a job in order to live – that is to say, for the money – has turned himself into a slave.
Your life is the fruit of your own doing. You have no one to blame but yourself.

What each must seek in his life never was on land or sea. It is something out of his own unique potentiality for experience, something that never has been and never could have been experienced by anyone else.

When people get married because they think it’s a long-time love affair, they’ll be divorced very soon, because all love affairs end in disappointment.
Marriage is a recognition of a spiritual identity.
When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship.

Life is without meaning. You bring the meaning to it. The meaning of life is whatever you ascribe it to be. Being alive is the meaning.
The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. Participate joyfully in the sorrows of the world. We cannot cure the world of sorrows, but we can choose to live in joy.

Myths are public dreams, dreams are private myths.

Joseph John Campbell (March 26, 1904 – October 30, 1987) was an American mythologist, writer and lecturer, best known for his work in comparative mythology and comparative religion.

What say?

This is where PA’s blog becomes a Radio Station relaying Aap Ki Farmaish.

So a reader wrote in wanting me to put up this song on this blog.

Blog Reader. You know who you are. This one is for you. Yeh gaane ki farmaish ki hai ABC ne. Unhone apne farmaish mein sirf yeh kaha hai ke unhe ye gaana bahut acha lagta hai.

The rest of the blog readers, don’t feel neglected. I heart all of you. You may send in your requests and PA’s Radio Station will play it just for you. :D :D Drum rolls please!

Movie: Sangam | Song: Har Dil Jo Pyar Karega | Music:  Shankar, Jaikishen | Lyrics By Hasrat Jaipuri

Lyrics:

Har dil jo pyaar karega, voh gaana gaayega
Deewana sekdon mein pehchaana jaayega
Deewana
Aap hamaare dil ko churaakar aankh churaaye jaate hain
Yeh ek tarfa rasm-e-vafa hum phir bhi nibhaaye jaate hain
Chaahat ka dastoor hai lekin aap ko hi maaloom nahin, o
Jis mehfil mein shamma ho parwaana jaayega
Deewana sekdon mein pehchaana jaayega
Deewana
Har dil jo pyaar karega, voh gaana gaayega
Deewana sekdon mein pehchaana jaayega
Deewana
Bhooli bisri yaadein mein hanste gaate bachpan ki
Raat beraat chali aati hai neend churaane nainan ki
Ab keh doongi karte karte kitne saawan beet gaye, ho
Jaane kab in aankhon ka sharmaana jaayega
Deewana sekdon mein pehchaana jaayega
Deewana
Har dil jo pyaar karega, voh gaana gaayega
Deewana sekdon mein pehchaana jaayega
Deewana
Apni apni sabne keh li, lekin hum chupchaap rahe
Dard paraaya jisko pyaara, voh kya apni baat kahe
Khaamoshi ka yeh afsaana reh jaayega baad mere, o
Apna ke har kisi ko begaana jaayega
Deewana sekdon mein pehchaana jaayega
Har dil jo pyaar karega, voh gaana gaayega
Deewana sekdon mein pehchaana jaayega
Deewana
Deewana

Via Paulo Coelho

There was once a well-known scholar, who lived in a mountain in the Himalayas. Tired of living with men, he had chosen a simple life and spent most of his time meditating.

His fame, however, was so great that people were willing to walk narrow paths, climb steep hills, swim rivers – to meet the holy man who was believed to be able to resolve any trouble of the human heart.

The wise man said nothing but asked them to sit and wait. Three days passed, and more people arrived. When there was no room for anyone else, he addressed the people who were outside his door.

“Today I will give the answer that everyone wants. But you must promise that, to have your problems solved, you will not tell the new pilgrims that I moved here – so that you can continue to live in the solitude you so much crave. Tell me your problems” .

Someone began to speak, but was soon interrupted by others, as everyone knew that this was the last public hearing that the holy man was giving. The wise man let the situation be prolonged a little, until he cried, “Silence! Write your problems down and put the papers in front of me,” he said.

When everyone finished, the wise man mixed all the papers in a basket, then said, “Keep this basket moving amongst you. Each of you will take a paper, and read it. You will then choose whether to keep your problems, or take the one given to you.”

Each person took a sheet of paper, read it, and was horrified. They concluded that what they had written, however bad it was, was not as serious as what ailed his neighbor. Two hours later, they exchanged papers amongst themselves, and each one had to put their personal problems back into his or her pocket, relieved that their distress was not as hard as they once thought.

Grateful for the lesson, they went down the mountain with the certainty that they were happier than all the others, and – fulfilling the promise made – never let anyone disturb the peace of the holy man.

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Among the comments therein, was another gem:

There is a classic old Jewish story called the Sorrow Tree. The world became filled with complaints and moaning. People began comparing their misery and sadness. They became convinced that their pain was undeserved and more traumatic than anyone else’s pain. Each person was trying to sing the blues louder than everyone else. It was desperate and woeful. So God created a Sorrow Tree. People were invited to come to the Sorrow Tree and exchange their woes. Each person packed up their troubles in an old kit bag and hung them on a branch of the Sorrow Tree. They then took someone else’s bag of troubles- one that looked lighter and more manageable. At first this seemed like a great idea. But over time each person ended up going back to their own troubles. Better the sorrow you know. It turned out to be almost impossible to deal with someone else’s pain. Their pain was for them, specially custom tailored for their own spiritual growth.

  1. A good deed may not always have a good intention behind it.
  2. A bad deed may not always have a bad intention behind it.
  3. A good person does not always do good deeds.
  4. A bad person does not always do bad deeds.
  5. A grey person does both. And is the most misunderstood of the lot more often than not.
  6. A good deed with a bad intention is a bad deed no matter what.
  7. Some deeds are good on a micro level and bad on a macro level.
  8. Some deeds are bad on micro level and good on the macro level.
  9. Be good and do good.
  10. A random act of goodness may not always be in the best interest of the doer and the receiver.

PS – Over-thinking on the above points is not always a good idea.

Song On My Mind – Ramchandra keh gaye Siya se

Movie – Gopi (1970)| Singer – Mahendra Kapoor | Lyrics – Rajinder Krishan | Music Director – Kalyanji Anandji

Lyrics

Raamchandra keh gaye siya se
Aaisa kaljug aayega
hans chugega daana dunka
kawwa moti khaayega
Siya ne poochhaa, Bhagwan
kalajug mein dharam karam ko koi nahi maanegaa?
to Prabhu bole:
dharam bhi hoga, karam bhi hoga
parantu sharam nahi hogi
baat baat me maata pitaako
beta aankh dikhaayega
he Ramchandra kah gaye siya se
Raaja aur praja dono mein
hogi nisdin khenchaataani
khenchaataani
kadam kadam par karenge dono
apni apni manmaani
jiske haath mein hogi laathi
bhains wahi le jaayega
hans chugega dana dunka
kawwa moti khayega
he Ramchandra kah gaye Siya se
suno Siya kaljug mein
kaala dhan aur kaale man honge
chor uchchakke nagar seth
aur prabhu bhakt nirdhan honge
jo hoga lobhi aur bhogi
wo jogi kehlaayega
hans chugega dana dunka
kawwa moti khayega
he Ramchandra kah gaye Siya se
mandir soona soona hoga
bhari rahengi madhushaala
pitaake sang sang bhari sabhaa mein
naachengi ghar ki baala
kaisa kanyaadaan pitaa hi
kanyaa ka dhan khaayega
hans chugega dana dunka
kawwa moti khayega
moorakh ki preet buri juyeki jeet buri
bure sang baith chain bhaage hi bhaage
kaajal ki kothri mein kaiso hi jatana karo
kaajal ka daag bhaai laage hi laage bhai
kitna jati ho koi kitna sati ho koi
kaamni ke sang kaam jaage hi jaage
suno kahe gopeeraama jiska hai raamadhaam
uska to phand gale laage hi laage re bhai
uska to phand gale laage hi laage


Via The Speaking Tree: Garbha, Dance Of The Pot – Devdutt Pattanaik
The pot is a great invention. Without the pot, we would still be going to water bodies like rivers and ponds to hydrate ourselves as and when we feel thirsty. Thanks to the pot, we can get the water into our homes and store it for future use no crocodiles lurking beneath the water, no fear of a wild animal getting provoked into attack. The pot is a symbol of human civilisation. 

Ancient Indians revered the pot. It was the symbol of the womb, the garbha, for it sustained human life. The pot was equated with the mother; it was a symbol of divinity. A pot or kalash filled with water and sprouts and crowned with green leaves and fruits became the symbol of abundance and good fortune. It was worshipped over 3,000 years ago. It is still being worshipped today.

The gods, the ancients believed, had a pot that overflowed with grain and gold. It was called the akshaya patra. They also had a pot brimming with amrit, the nectar of immortality. Humans had neither. But humans included women who created and nurtured life, ensuring the continuation of the species. Women were therefore a combination of akshya patra and amrit, holding in their bodies the promise of abundance and immortality for the family. Without a woman, a family perished. The family tree withered.

In ancient times women were clearly regarded as being more valuable than men. The survival of a tribe depended not on the number of men it had but on the strength of its women. So in the early days, women were given the choice to choose husbands. The foremost form of wedding was considered to be one where the father gave his daughter to another family. It was a gift of akshaya patra and amrit.

While the forest was equated with the wild goddess, the field was equated with the domesticated goddess. Forest was woman, field was wife. Forest was water in the pond, field was water in a pot. Field was the womb that sustained a village. It was worshipped as humanity’s akshaya patra and amrit, bringing forth prosperity year after year. The domestication of the earth, the transformation of the woman into homemaker, the moulding of clay into a pot, is the result of human intervention, an imposition on nature’s freedom, a sacrifice to ensure the birth of civilisation, to ensure perpetuation and survival.

In autumn, as the rains recede and crops are harvested, three things come together on nine nights: the pot, the woman and the field. In the centre of the field, the pot is placed filled with water and sprouts, and around it women dance in circular formation. They bend down and clap as they thank the earth and cosmos and energise it with their happiness. This is garbo, the dance of the earth-womb. The circular formation of the dance is a reminder of the horizon, the rim of the divine pot, the world we live in. We live in a cosmic womb, just as deities in temples are enshrined in the garba griha or sanctum sanctorum, a detail endorsed by the metal pots placed on top of the temple dome.

Navaratri or nine auspicious nights is the season to remember and celebrate the female principle in various aspects as goddess as well as the pot, the homemaker and giver of prosperity.

The writer is a mythologist.


“Mere ghar aayi ek nanhi pari…..”

A friend had a baby today and announced it to the world with this phrase.

This simple phrase has such raw emotions which can’t be described in words.

Beautiful, isn’t it!

 

 

Song on my mind: Hathon Ki Chand Lakeeron Ka, Yeh Khel Hai Sab Taqdiron Ka

Movie: Vidhaata

By now, dear readers, you must have either read or heard about ‘Meter Jam’ if you happen to live in Mumbai/Bombay or some of the other metropolitan cities in India. Meter Jam is a campaign against Auto and Taxi drivers indulging in malpractices.  It is the brainchild of three Mumbai based Advertising professionals – Jaidev Rupani, Rachna Brar and Abhilash Krishnan. What is the mission of this campaign, you ask? As per their mission statement, Taxi and auto rickshaw are part of public services. Unfortunately in India, there’s no proper control or rulebook to facilitate the smooth running of this service. Taxi & auto meters are manipulated and commuters pay more than what they have to; yet there is no other way. Politicians and unions put public at inconvenience and affect everyday life by calling taxi and auto strikes, whenever they need to pressurize govt. to meet their demands. It’s time for public to put across their say in the matter with Meter Jam.

So on certain pre-decided dates, the campaign appeals to the people of a specified city to mark their protest against Taxis and Auto rickshaws by boycotting their services. Say NO to Autos and Taxis on XYX date. Because they say No to you whenever they want. Are you ready to skip the ride?

They request people to use public transport such as buses on that day or make use of Car Pool or Bike Pool on the said day. Bike Pool, you wonder, yes even I came across the term for the first time.

Things that I appreciate about the campaign:

  • An initiative to clean the system
  • Three ordinary people took this initiative

As I try to figure out a third reason, my logical mind wants to know about the so-called malpractices by Taxi and Auto Drivers, the basis and the foundation of this campaign.

According to them it’s a movement against:

  1. Meter that always reads more than it should
  2. Drivers who refuse to ply
  3. Drivers who demand return fare
  4. Auto/Taxi strikes any time their Union decides

As per Indian Law, as they say, Autos/Taxis with half meter down are allowed to refuse you a ride as it is their rest time.

So Point No.2 applies to those with their meter up as that denotes ‘For Hire’.

I am in sync with Point No.1, 3 and 4. With respect to Point No.2, there could be a couple of scenarios:

Driver A is about to be done with his shift in another 20 minutes. He is supposed to travel to XYZ area to hand over the vehicle either to the owner of the vehicle or to the driver doing the following shift.

You, a customer, approach him wanting to go to DEF area which is in an opposite direction to the area he intends to go. Or, maybe, the time taken to travel to area DEF is quite higher whereby the driver would have to go well past this shift time or duty time.

What do you do next, as a customer? Make a note of his vehicle number and the other requisite details. And lodge a complaint(!) Or maybe hurl a couple of abuses, either on an audible note or silently. Tum sab saale auto wale ek jaise ho!

You may otherwise ask anybody defending the situation, either him or maybe me, he should have kept his meter down in a not-for-hire condition if he didn’t want to ply? He should have right away gone to his own destination if his shift was getting over, why be available and then refuse to ply?

Let’s take another scenario. The driver has to pick up his kid from school which is five kilometers away from where you are right now, at the time when you happen to ask him to take you wherever you want to go. And the place where you want to go has a greater number associated to it, in terms of either distance or time. You ask, he refuses to ply. Or you just jump into the vehicle without asking and pressurize him to take you wherever you want to go because ‘it is the said thing’

What do you do next, as a customer? Make a note of his vehicle number and the other requisite details. And lodge a complaint(!) Or maybe hurl a couple of abuses, either on an audible note or silently. Tum sab saale auto wale ek jaise ho!

You may otherwise ask anybody defending the situation, either him or maybe me, he should have kept his meter down in a not-for-hire condition if he didn’t want to ply? He should have right away gone to his own destination if his shift was getting over, why be available and then refuse to ply?

For people who drive Autos or Taxis for a living, they live on a day to day existence. And recovering their operational cost is an important factor for them. If he refuses to ply, their could be a genuine reason to it. If he wants to take a passenger who is going in the area where he has to report at the end of the shift, is there anything wrong in it? The vehicle runs on fuel and if he is cost-savvy, and if he wants to partially recover the cost by providing you services on the way, is there anything wrong in it? If he is off to pick his kids from school and your destination happens to be on the way, he will in all possibilities provide services to you. If you want to go in an opposite direction, he will refuse because he would want to provide his services to someone who wants to go on the same route. And what’s wrong in that?

Also it is wrong to judge that the entire auto/taxi fraternity is a cheat. They are people who work really hard to earn a living and give their children education and a decent upbringing. Just because a percentage of them are indulging into malpractices, one cannot cast a halo effect on all of them and generalize that the entire fraternity is like that. By malpractices, I refer to only Point No.1, 3 and 4.

Point No.2, refusing to ply, cannot completely be categorized as a malpractice. Think about it. There could be a lot of genuine cases too which fall under this. Also I do not deny the fact that there could be some not-so-genuine cases too.

When strikes happen, who are the people who suffer the most? We, the aam aadmi, you say. No, my dear. It is the auto and taxi drivers who suffer the most. They are mere puppets when it comes to these strikes. Sometimes we, the aam aadmi, call for a strike or a boycott, and sometimes it’s their trade union who calls for it.

And sadly the drivers, and a large chunk of them, don’t have a say in either.

Strikes and Boycotts. Do we really need more? Or is it our way of saying, a slap for a slap.

Tell me one thing…

Seriously, wokay?

When people ask you, ‘What is your daily calorie intake count?’

How do you answer? And what do you answer?

Not that I feel like being answerable for the food that I eat. But still I am curious.

And what happens when people count and eat? One gram of X has Y amount of calories. How-how-how do you manage to count and eat? I am quite intrigued to know the process that goes into it. Do you also get to enjoy every morsel of food that you put in your mouth or is it the just the brain working overtime doing calorie math?

Assuming you eat a typical Gujarati Thali with an assortment of curries, veggies, lentils, Indian breads and sweets thrown in, then how do we do the math?

How about a typical Indian Dosa with the accompanying chutney and sambhar?

Fleeting Thoughts

 

Via Mumbai Boss - Lower Parel Lunching

An interesting restaurant list to bookmark for a filling lunch before you get on the run again. Covers a gamut of cuisines and some of the best known places. They even have a map available for download on the link above. 

A. Rajnanda
Shop No. 7/8, Wadachi Chawl, NM Joshi Marg. 2297 8484.
Malwani restaurant known for pomfret masala, bombil fry, pomfret chilli and surmai thalis.

B. Swami Snacks
Shop No. 1/2, Saksham Building, SB Marg, opposite Kamala Mills. 99672 45999.
Vegetarian take-out best for veggie grilled sandwiches, cheese frankies, pav bhaji and chaat.

C. Jai Hind Lunch Home
7/8 Madhav Bhavan, B Block, SB Marg, opposite Kamala Mills. 2493 0010.
Popular lunch home chain that specialises in coastal cuisine from Goa, Karnataka and the Konkan belt.

D. The Mumbai Deli
6 Madhav Bhavan, SB Marg, opposite Kamala Mills. 6529 3154.
Ideal for quick sandwich and salad lunches. Serves an excellent barley and zucchini salad, and Italian spicy grilled panini.

E. Shri Krishna
1/2 Madhav Bhavan, opposite Kamala Mills, SB Marg. 3255 2327.
Standard Udipi fare such as dosas and uttapam, as well as thalis and biryanis.

F. Ext. 202
New Mahalaxmi Mills, Mathuradas Mill Compound. 2492 6202.
A vegetarian cafeteria that serves good pasta in pesto sauce, Maggie in alfredo sauce and cream cheese bagels.

G. Srinathji’s Taste the Nectar
Jagdamba Bhavan, opposite Matulya Centre, SB Marg. 2498 5857.
Indianised versions of Lebanese, Mexican and Italian cuisines. Also has a bakery section with cookies, farsan, breads, Bengali sweets and pastries.

H. Paninaro
Peninsula Corporate Park, Ganapatrao Kadam Marg, off SB Marg. 6151 9999.
Salad and sandwich truck that specialises in gourmet sandwiches like smoked scarmoza and tomato, avocado and olives, and smoked chicken and bacon.

I. Ramnath Damoodar Sandwich
197 Shenoy Building, Ganapathrao Kadam Marg, opposite Peninsula Corporate Park. 6427 5698.
Popular sandwich and juice stall known for its capsicum cheese toastie and chilli-cheese grilled sandwich.

J. Modern Family Restaurant
B-184 Jodia Mansion, Ganapathrao Kadam Marg, opposite Peninsula Corporate Park. 2492 2585.
Restaurant and juice centre that serves non-veg paratha rolls and a great prawn biryani.

K. DP’s Wok Hei
Khimji Nagji Building, opposite High Street Phoenix, SB Marg. 2495 4627.
A wide mix of cuisines including Mangalorean, Mongolian, Tibetan and Chinese. The chilli beer chicken, and Mangalorean kori roti and chicken curry are popular.

L. Maroosh
High Street Phoenix compound, SB Marg. 98333 97060.
Well known for its chicken shawarma. But also serves Mughlai food like kebabs and curries.

M. Trupti
Unit 12-B, Palladium, High Street Phoenix. 2490 2211.
Snack shop that delivers veg sandwiches and fresh Gujarati farsan like kachori, dhokla, kandvi and handvo.

N. Komala’s
Below PVR cinema, High Street Phoenix. 4347 3929.
South Indian fast food chain that serves great rasam, bisibelebath, rasam vada and South Indian thali.

O. Wich Latte
Phoenix Mills food court, SB Marg. Tel: 6510 0719.
Try their turkey sandwiches or bagel pizzas. They also do an excellent Swiss chocolate mousse.

P. Indigo Deli
First Floor, Palladium, High Street Phoenix. 2498 6262.
Bagel and lox, burgers, chorizo pizza and red currant cheesecake are must-haves at this popular eatery.

Q. Grass Root
Opposite High Street Phoenix, SB Marg. 2491 3131.
Fast food restaurant that serves a wholesome paratha thali.

R. Da Vinci’s Express
Raghuvanshi Mills, next to Tata Power Gate, near High Street Phoenix. 93201 36611.
Take-out place that has a limited range of paninis, Greek and Italian salads and also pizza by the slice.

S. Little Italy
Raghuvanshi Mills, SB Marg, Lower Parel. 6615 9988.
Popular Italian restaurant chain that specialises in veggie pizzas and pastas.

T. The Tasting Room
First Floor, Good Earth, Raghuvanshi Mills. 6528 5284.
An airy restaurant and wine bar best known for its grilled chicken breast, Moroccan tagine, and dessert counter.

Bhagwanji,

I want a new laptop.

PA

 

Song on my mind: O Saathi Chal – Seeta aur Geeta [Lyrics]

 

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